tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post1255706914554654758..comments2023-09-08T22:27:43.844-07:00Comments on Bower of Blisse: Stuck in a RutSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04978703690282366558noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-19043900562771549602012-10-03T23:10:10.843-07:002012-10-03T23:10:10.843-07:00Definitely! (=
Definitely! (=<br />GoingtotheShowinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08380384817418299797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-66469884899177751182012-10-02T12:40:11.841-07:002012-10-02T12:40:11.841-07:00I feel like school has messed with my focus, too.....I feel like school has messed with my focus, too... It's hard for me to stay on task! My dad claims this is something that comes with age, which I guess could be true... But I'm blaming school! It's like you can only spend so many years focused on academic things before your brain starts to rebel. Growing out hair can be such a pain, I had a pixie cut and grew it out to be waist-length, so I went through every single awkward in-between phase imaginable. AND I later grew out my bangs. So that was even more awkward... They're *almost* long enough to not be a pain. Good luck, it will be worth it in the end when your hair is the way you want it! Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04978703690282366558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-59350421575314185832012-10-02T12:37:29.218-07:002012-10-02T12:37:29.218-07:00Thank you for the kind words! I don't think wi...Thank you for the kind words! I don't think withdrawing at this point in time is the right choice for me, but I do know I won't be continuing on to a PhD program like I had originally planned, at least not right now. I just have to remind myself that, in the grand scheme of things, another year of school isn't the end of the world UNLESS I am putting everything else in my life on hold, so I can't let myself do that! <br /><br />And yes as for hair, I use a sleek/ straightening shampoo and conditioner, and I use products do help de-frizz and straighten my hair. It only does so much... I know I might just need to learn how to blowdry it properly. I try not to use heat on it too often because it is colored and I don't want to overly damage it (when it was really long, it was super damaged; that's why I cut off so much of the length), but I actually just went out and bought a thermal protectant so that I could try maaaaaybe flat ironing it. When I do blowdry my hair, it is usually just with a big paddle brush and my blowdryer. Do you have any tips regarding types of brushes or blowdryer attachments I should be using to help get it straighter and smoother? Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04978703690282366558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-41551501612237294222012-10-01T22:44:38.751-07:002012-10-01T22:44:38.751-07:00I feel your pain on the school thing. I went to un...I feel your pain on the school thing. I went to university full time for 8 years and it literally sucked the life out of me. I am so glad to be done! I gained weight from sitting around studying and spent all my money on school rather than anything fun and never had time to do anything but study or work to save more money for school, it was pretty rough sometimes. I find that even now I have no attention span because I'm traumatized from studying or something.(OMG, I am like, the least inspiring person ever, jeez.) Hang in there, hopefully it will all be worth it once you graduate. I'm having some "hair issues" myself lately so I can relate to you there as well. I am really sick of my short hair (it was super long before I chopped it off, actually, the chopping was due to boredom and stress and being in a rut from school, incidentally). I am trying to grow it out right now and it is in a really awkward phase as it is short in the back but longer in the front and I am a bit self-conscious about it as I look a bit sketchy! Hopefully you come out of your rut soon and I hope your job interview went well! :)Vulcan_Butterflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11347496680018156439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-50644903715054313772012-10-01T22:03:47.865-07:002012-10-01T22:03:47.865-07:00Awww *hugs* I think as a beauty blogger, we all g...Awww *hugs* I think as a beauty blogger, we all get to the point where it becomes more of a chore than a hobby. If you blog for fun, I see no harm in just stepping away for a while. Take some time to regroup and take care of yourself first. <br /><br />As for school, I totally understand. I didn't get my diploma in time to teach abroad in Korea like I wanted and that just completely changed my career path. My boyfriend recently decided to withdraw from his PhD because he wasn't happy with where he was going with it. Not saying that you should withdraw, because it seems like you're pretty well into your studies. Even though you are finishing a year later, I have complete faith in you and know you will end your graduate studies with a BANG. Meanwhile, a part time job, especially one related to your field of study, could definitely help boost your mood. I know what you mean about wanting to just achieve something and do something successful. I'm looking forward to reading your thesis! I haven't forgotten :)<br /><br />As for hair (saved the best for last lol), what is your hair care regimen? For shampoo and conditioner, try aiming for something that will make your hair more sleek and straight. Short hair is a lot harder to tame, especially if there is some wave to it. I know you said you usually air dry your hair, but would you consider adding blowdrying to your routine? If you blowdry your hair straight with a little bit of serum in it, it would be significantly more manageable. You shoould also be able to ask your stylist for some tips. Let me know if you want access to professional products :)sugarbumpkinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12338877286515412911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-74722620245815442502012-10-01T08:48:17.685-07:002012-10-01T08:48:17.685-07:00Aww, you are helping, it makes me feel better to k...Aww, you are helping, it makes me feel better to know I am not the only one who isn't happy about the way school is going! I had a really great undergrad experience and was super motivated the whole time, got good grades, graduated on time... I don't know why I expected my grad school experience to be more of the same! I just feel like I have been fighting it the whole time, it has never been a good fit with my life. Oh well, sometimes we just have to keep on keeping on. I honestly think I'd rather be working full time with where I am in my life, but I know that it is important to me to finish what I start, and that I'd really regret not getting my degree, and that's what keeps me going. I have to remind myself that it is something I am doing for my future self, not necessarily my present self! But it would really help if present self were not so BROKE! Haha... <br />Ugh, and baby weight... At least that is normal! I know it probably still doesn't feel great carrying around, but you know that it was gained for an amazing cause and helped you nurture your child. I gained a lot of weight when my mom was sick and I was caring for her. It was really stressful and I had been relatively active before then, but I got too busy helping out around the house to do much. I feel like nobody tells you how much easier it is to stop gaining than it is to actually start losing! <br />Well, good luck with everything, and hang in there... Things will get better, and school is important even when it's not fun. Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04978703690282366558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-56252557777665266552012-10-01T00:49:59.174-07:002012-10-01T00:49:59.174-07:00Sarah!
I totally get where you are coming from and...Sarah!<br />I totally get where you are coming from and there are many days that I feel that way too. I swear, its like EVERY semster, I am less and less motivated to finish school, let along even go at all. The whole school system is so messed up. It really pisses me off. But I just try to look at the bright side. When I think about not going to school, I begin to wonder what my life would be like if I didnt go to school. And to be honest, Im really not ready to work a full time job. Augh. The economy is effing (excuse me) everything up. They expect people to go to school with no money when tuition is high as F. We have no money, no job, no experience. And to be honest, the things I learned in highschool have not even helped me with my college courses. <br /><br />Since I made the switch in my major, (this is my 4th year of college, and dang it feels like Ill never finish!) but I feel like since switching I have actually learned somethings. Blah. Damn school. Makes me feel like horrible sometimes.<br /><br />Also, I know how you feel about being pretty. Since having my baby, I feel like not so pretty all the time. The baby weight that I gained (and have a hard time losing) makes me feel like crap. But Im trying to do something about. So, youre not alone in this rut! <br /><br />Just remember to be positive! Look at brighter side- I know its tough and youre not alone! Do what you can with what you can where you are! (= <br /><br />Sorry Im not help and sorry for the long novel.<br /><br />And good luck on your interview! Wishing you the best! (=GoingtotheShowinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08380384817418299797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-89315223761470405512012-10-01T00:16:27.352-07:002012-10-01T00:16:27.352-07:00Thanks Angie, it's nice to know I'm not al...Thanks Angie, it's nice to know I'm not alone! I hope you get excited about blogging again, too! Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04978703690282366558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5203411720864438611.post-18164692380586812062012-09-30T21:04:56.753-07:002012-09-30T21:04:56.753-07:00This sounds so much like me right now! (minus the ...This sounds so much like me right now! (minus the school work!). Blogging seems like such a chore sometimes. Then it makes me depressed that I haven't done makeup posts, but I've been stuck doing everyday looks instead of anything exciting.<br /><br />Anyways, good luck in the interview! I hope hope you get out of your rut soon!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06870646721160692605noreply@blogger.com